People think I am a little big. It is embrassing to me. I don't think I am. What should I do about this?

Answer:
Absolutely nothing... I like women a little larger and so do a lot of guys... Don't be embarassed.. You're a beautiful person...Ditch those who make you feel bad about yourself, there are plenty of people out there that will love you for who you are and not for what they want you to be

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Don't listen to what other people say. If you like the way to are just be yourself and try not to turn out so skinny.

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get a bit smaller

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You mean like 6 foot 8 inches big? Or 42 D cup big?

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its definatly not worth stressing about! im not exactly small myself, but its not worth hurting yourself over! The only person u need to please is yourself!

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First, who is "people?" If it's friends, you need new ones, if it's relatives, you need to avoid them. And either way, whoever is doing it really needs to be told to stop. Most people are full of ****, please remember that. As long as you're happy with yourself, that golden aura will shine through.

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Either forget about what other people think--it's your opinion that counts!! OR:

walk in the fresh air every day
quit or cut down on SODA
don't put mayonnaise on sandwiches
learn yoga and/or aerobics (or play sports, or swim)
don't eat fried foods
don't eat fast foods (except the salad or baked potato)
make fruits and veggies your best friends

Good luck, whatever you decide...:)

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Be you! Don't worry what people think..if we all looked the same how boring would the world be?! I am so tired of every one acting like anything bigger than a 3 is fat. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, one day (if you haven't already) you will find someone that loves you for you..in the meantime, maybe you can spend your time thinking up snappy comebacks to give to those that want to tear you down.

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Same thing i tell my kids --- When someone says something negative about you, do the following 3 things:
1__Evaluate it and learn from any truth it may have (if there is any truth in it) . So you need to ask yourself "Am I too big? Will it make me healthier and an overall better person if I were to lose 10 pounds or whatever?"
2__Do something withe the truth you have learned from it
If the answer is 'yes, it would make my life more fruitful if i were 10 lbs thinner', then do something about it.
3__Move on in life.

Now, if there is no truth in the statement, and people just want to be hurtful (as many people do), consider yourself lucky and blessed that you are not like them. Simply ignore them. Ignore their statements and ignore their looks. Remember that in life people ONLY have as much power as YOU give them over you. So, should you confront them? Well, be result-oriented! Meaning, if you think reasoning with tem or confronting them will help, then go ahead. My experience tells me that people who do these things just to be hurtful usually don't benefit from those encounters.. so you'd be wasting your breath -- just ignore them!

Best of luck to you!

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ywert

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Go to your doctor and/or a dietitian. Let them check your weight. They will be able to determine if you are over weight. Let them check you Body mass index. This will show the amount of muscle and fat you have and you will be able to determine if you have to much fat. You can also research it on the internet. Depending on your height, age, gender, and built you should be able to determine what is a good weight for you. It should be a certain range. You can do a search for a health calculator. This might help.
Do not let what other people think and say about you affect you in any negative ways. For the most part let it affect you positively. For instance do as if it were friendly advise to check your health and see if you are over weight. If it is that you are indeed a little big, then let thier comments help you buy encouraging you to get to you optimum size. DO NOT GET OBSESSED WITH LOOSING WEIGHT as it could land you up in the hospital. If you are only a little big, don't worry, you probably don't look bad and you just have a little work to do to loose a little weight. Also if you are a little overweight you have to try not to put on anymore weight. But do it the right way...don't starve yourself or anything like that.
A little more exersise and enough water and proper sleep should work for you.

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You said you don't think you're too big so to hell with those that say anything. People who say this to you are not your friends. Continue to remain your beautiful self inside and out and don't listen to those that try to bring you down. Avoid them at all costs. Some people say these things out of jealousy or because they're so miserable that they want others to be miserable too.

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